Finding Beauty Everywhere


I love to find beauty in unexpected places...and I'm never disappointed.

We, you and I, just have to take the time to look. It's Everywhere!!

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I'm interested in all living things which means All Things. There is beauty everywhere. We just have to slow down enough to find it...to see it. I believe there is nothing Man can do to match the beauty found in Nature...and not only the beauty. Nature can outdo anything man can think of in the way of destruction too. Man is very small, the works of man are very small. We need to remember this. But Nature never sends its force after anything or anyone out of anger or hatred or desire to conquer or own. Nature has many lessons for us all.

Wednesday, November 14, 2007

GMom Makes a Landing....

Yesterday, Gooserock's Mom fell while crossing the street across from our house. She had gone with a girlfriend to the church down at the corner where they serve a lunch for anyone interested on Tuesdays and Thursdays. It's sort of "the thing to do" for quite a large collection of locals especially seniors.

She had her lunch and the two of them were walking back to our house...GMom with her cane. This is a walk she has taken many times and knows it well.

We were in the livingroom just beginning to watch for her as it was time for her return. I glanced out the window and nearly had a heart attack. I yelled, "Mom's fallen, she's in the street!!". I saw this very tiny form flat out on her face in the pull-off across from us. Her friend was bending over her.

We both ran out...I didn't even stop to put on shoes. She was laying sort of half on her front and half on her left side and bleeding from her face. I yanked off my sweat shirt and put it under her head/face and ran back to the house to call 9-1-1.

I told the dispatcher our address, phone number, Mom's age and briefly what happened. Then the dispatcher started asking all those silly questions like you hear on TV.

"Is she bleeding from her nose or her mouth?"

Me: "I can't tell, she's laying on her face."

"Is she conscious?

Me: "Yes, she's talking."

"Are you sure she's bleeding? and from where?"

Me: "Yes, she's bleeding, I can't see from where for sure...her face somewhere"

Finally dispatcher says the EMTs have been called and are on their way. I run back into the house again to get a blanket.

We wait 10-15 minutes. No emergency squad. I call again. By now several people have stopped to help and ask if we've called anyone yet. Dispatcher says the EMTs are on their way and should be there soon. I remind her that this 81 year old woman is laying in the street on cold asphalt and WHERE IS THE EMERGENCY SQUAD? I get the same answer, they've been called and are on their way.

After what was about 20 minutes, they arrive. They use our blanket to roll her over and lift her onto the stretcher. The did a preliminary check of hips, etc to be sure nothing is broken. She is bleeding from her forehead and nose. We said we wanted her taken to the ER (45 minutes away). Since she was talking coherently and seemed to have nothing broken, I, instead of Gooserock followed in our car.

We spent 3.5 hours in the ER. They did a head CT to be sure there was no bleeding in the brain. They dug a stone out of her forehead that was about 4mm x 8mm. Finally they got around to suturing her....5 stitches in her forehead and two in the bridge of her nose where her glasses sit. Her whole nose and part of her upper lip and forehead are abraided. But, thankfully, no bones were broken, no bleeding in her brain. This could have been so much worse. We are so thankful. And best of all it will serve to make her be more cautious about where she puts her feet and how she steps over the curb bump. It's not a real curb. It's like a speed bump paralleling the road to keep rain water from flooding the sidewalk. I think she forgot it was there, couldn't see it (it's not painted and is the same asphalt as the road) and she must have fallen over it and landed full on her face. She did not get her hands or arms up to protect her face. I've called City Hall to suggest that this "curb" be painted bright white or yellow. The spot is also a favorite of tourists to pull of the road and look at the scene. Lots of people would benefit from the paint job.

All in all, she's a very lucky lady. But BOY! you should see her today. Two swollen red raccoon eyes, red swollen scabby nose, swollen upper lip, over all aches and pains. Thank goodness for vicodin. She slept well and has good appetite. I will not be taking a picture of her.

This is her second fall since she's been up here and there were two in Florida. It's really scarey!

She just came out of her "apartment" to say she was ready for her glass of wine. We talked her out of it due to the narcotic. She agreed. I'd say she's feeling a lot better.

8 Comments:

Blogger AndiF said...

I'm so glad she's all right. My m-i-l took a fall this summer and broke her wrist and it's really been hard on her because now she's really conscious of how easily she can get hurt.

And wow, what a gorgeous sunset!

11/15/2007 2:20 AM  
Blogger Puget4 said...

Hi Andi. Oh my! A broken wrist! That would be really rough. I can't imagine what we'd be dealing with if GMom had broken a bone also. It was a wake up call for GMom too. She knows she needs to be really careful now...at least until she forgets... Having GMom living with us has been a wake up call for me as well. Just 3 short years ago, she was robust and very independent. We never know what is just around the corner.

11/15/2007 8:27 AM  
Blogger Family Man said...

Hi Puget.

I'm so happy GMom didn't break anything. As you know, at her age it's very easy to break something. I think it was around last Sep/Oct that FMom fell and broke her shoulder. It was very difficult on her and me. As you said, Thank goodness for vicodin.

Since FMom's bad fall I've counted about 8 more times she fallen. Luckily she has never hurt herself with the most recent falls, but that doesn't mean anything.

Well I've gotta go. We're fighting a virus in FMland and miserable isn't a word that even encompasses it.

You, Gooserock and Gmom take care of yourselves.

11/16/2007 7:33 PM  
Blogger Puget4 said...

Hi FM. Thanks for visiting. Sorry to hear about your virus. Can I make you some chicken soup? Or maybe a cup of green tea with honey in it would be better.

Yes, GMom is very lucky and therefore so are we. Her face is looking better every day. More colors are appearing (green for instance) but that's a sign of healing. All the swelling is gone.

11/16/2007 8:13 PM  
Blogger olivia said...

Oh dear ... thankfully Gmom is okay! Yikes.

I can't believe what you all have been going through lately. Yikes again.

11/17/2007 4:11 PM  
Blogger Puget4 said...

Hi Olivia. You said,"I can't believe what you all have been going through lately."

I agree. I/we must have been doing something to mess up our karma. I for one have not been taking time enough to let my eyes see what's around me. I'm forgetting about Nature and the strength and beauty that is there.

I'm making a pre-Thanksgiving resolution.... take the time to see. I have to reread my blog initial statement and remind myself.

Thanks for coming to visit. I'm still waiting for the cinnamon buns. :-)

11/17/2007 5:39 PM  
Blogger olivia said...

Hi P4.

How are you all doing there - you and GMom after your adventures of the last few weeks.

I didn't hear how you made out w/ the brining bird also. Did you have a good thanksgiving?

11/25/2007 9:18 AM  
Blogger Puget4 said...

Hi Olivia! Thanks for coming by. Thanks, too for the reminder. I've been meaning to put up another post this time about Thanksgiving.

GMom is doing great. According to her doctor, she heals very fast. Stitches are out. And 95% if the technicolor-ness of her face is gone.

11/25/2007 12:42 PM  

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